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Going Vegan

Going vegan was a significant change in my life. I ate animal products every single day, trying to ignore the story behind every meal, until the guilt became too strong and I knew it was time for me to act on what I believe in. It took me a couple months to make the full transition, stopping one product at a time, which I think made it healthier for my mind and easier than completely changing from one day to the next. I want to share my journey and this transition, with the negatives and positives that came with it.


1.Judgement
I couldn’t write about going vegan without mentioning the reaction of the people around me. I received all sorts of reactions; some found it and still find it amazing, supporting me and always making sure I can have something decent to eat when we go out or when they invite me over for a meal. A few had a more passive reaction, not really understanding what I was doing and why, even after explaining it to them, but letting me be nonetheless. And others had a ver…
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I am a Feminist

Before some of you start rolling your eyes, you should actually understand what feminism is about. Too many people repeat what others say about it, without actually trying to have a conversation on the matter. Feminism is about equality. It isn’t about the superiority of women, or revenge on men, it is about equality, entirely. I’m sure you’re dying to mention this feminist girl you know, or heard of, who is full of anger towards men and wants to dominate them, but that isn’t feminism. Actual feminists do not agree with that. I often get called extreme because of my opinions, but what’s extreme about wanting equality?
I started experiencing sexism at a young age: in my primary school, girls weren’t allowed to play football simply because boys automatically thought that we weren’t any good and that we would bring the team down. If we were determined to play, we had to pay the captain of the team with snacks. This was a process that only lasted until my teacher heard about it and it was…

I Like Boys...and Girls

I’ve been wanting to write about this topic for quite a while now, but without ever being sure of the approach I wanted to take. As the title suggests, I’ll be writing about the fact that I am bisexual. It wasn’t an easy journey, nor a romantic one that can be seen in films – where one takes a glance at a beautiful girl and they instantly fall in love and are able to discover their sexuality together, or with one helping the other. It was an emotional journey full of confusion, doubt and shame. I’m not sure whether or not I can say I’ve truly found and understood myself now, but at least I’ve accepted myself – which is more than I could’ve wished for a couple years back.



Wanting a Vegan Partner

It’s been a long time since I wrote anything about veganism on here, and I want to address a question that I often get asked by my friends. Do I want my future partner to be vegan?
It’s a simple question, with a simple answer: yes. And to me it makes perfect sense why. But my answer always confuses the other person and leaves them quite puzzled. When I reply that I wouldn’t want to be with anyone long-term who isn’t vegan, they think I’m this horrible girlfriend who will dictate my partner’s life. I would never want to forcefully make my partner vegan, there’s nothing nice or beautiful about it! In the long-run it wouldn’t work anyways. And it’s just not me, I want my partner to be vegan by choice. I am more than happy to play an important role in their transition, but of course they need to want to make the change.

Life Update - Erasmus

I really haven’t taken any time for blogging lately, and quite frankly I miss it. I really enjoy writing and sharing things with you, so I felt like something was missing this past month. I moved to Bologna in Italy for my Erasmus, so big changes have been going on and I’ve had to accommodate. Bologna is such an extraordinary city; it’s extremely beautiful, the weather is amazing and the people are wonderful. I am really happy that I chose this city, I feel like I belong here and it truly suits me. For the first couple of weeks I found it difficult to make friends; I felt so detached from everyone, I couldn’t seem to meet people similar to me, or with whom I clicked. Anxiety made me feel quite overwhelmed on several occasions but I’ve managed to power through and eventually meet a lovely group of international people. That’s what I love the most about the Erasmus experience: we come from different countries, but we’re all together in this same city for similar purposes.

The Liebster Award

Something I love about the blogging community is being able to discover new blogs about any topic and finding like-minded writers. The people I’ve come across have all been very supportive, and it’s especially helpful when you’re a still a newbie! I want to thank Anjo for nominating me for the Liebster award, you can find her helpful and colourful blog over HERE. It covers topics from travelling to food, with motivational posts as well. 
Here are The Official Rules of the Liebster Award
Write a blog post about the Liebster award in which you:
1.Thank the person who nominated you, and post a link to their blog on your blog.
2.Display the award on your blog – by including it in your post and/or displaying it using a “widget” or a “gadget”.
3.Answer 11 questions about yourself, which will

Living with Social Anxiety

As soon as I started blogging, I wanted to address social anxiety. It’s apparently one of the most common mental disorders, but like for a majority of mental illnesses, it is often misunderstood. Many people think social anxiety is just another term for ‘shyness’, but there’s so much more to it than just feeling a little uncomfortable in social situations.
It’s difficult to explain what it really is, and for people who don’t experience it to fully understand, because in some cases the thoughts that go through our head aren’t rational. What may seem like the easiest thing for you, is actually extremely difficult for us. Everyone experiences social anxiety differently; a situation that makes me very anxious can be easy to deal with for someone else, and vice versa.

My First Tattoo

I got my first (and only) tattoo last year at the beginning of September with one of my best friends, Helene. We had gotten some fake ones together before, but this time they were real. I’ll share our thought process, all the various decisions we made and why; it might help you if you’re still deciding whether you’d want one or not! 1.Reasons Helene and I love tattoos (she probably a bit more than me, she’s obsessed), and it was her idea to get one together. Last summer we travelled in Central Europe for 3 weeks, just the two of us, and so we thought it would be a good idea to get it then. It was our first time backpacking so we wanted to make it special.  2.Concerns I’m not gonna lie, I was very scared of getting the tattoo. I was scared I would regret it, that I wouldn’t like it after a while, or that Helene and I would stop being friends and then I’d be left with a tattoo constantly reminding me of her (which will hopefully never happen). I was also terrified of the pain: I have a low …